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Reflections on 2022

2022 was exhausting.

The end.

(Okay, not really the end. I’m not giving up my semi-annual excuse to pontificate!)

2022 was a good year. My nephew was born. I traveled a great deal around the United States (Wisconsin, Iowa, Minnesota, Louisiana, Ohio, Missouri, California, West Virginia, D.C., and I’m sure others I’m forgetting.) I testified before multiple legislatures. Visited three new state capitals. Spoke at several conferences. Attended two really interesting legal conferences. Wrote some articles. Saw new parts of D.C. and Virginia when friends and family came to visit. Met an old friend in person for the first time and attended her wedding. Toured the Regan Library. Talked on the phone with grandparents almost weekly. Went to a family reunion!

I moved to the ground floor basement in my townhouse and with the help of friends, painted the walls pink and white. (Previously they were a hideous brown and blue—far too dark for a space with only one wall of windows.)

It was a year of doctor visits. I went on Accutane in January at the recommendation of my dermatologist and off it in February when it started impacting my vision. I now get ocular migraines. I started to see an allergy doctor and for the first time in a long time am managing my allergies. My visits with a chiropractor have basically cleared up my carpal tunnel which is amazing. Consistent visits to the acupuncturist have helped with energy levels. And my new homeopathic doctor? I swear by her.

I became the second-most junior attorney when we hired a new lawyer at work. Lost a mentor. Gained a bigger office. Fewer states. More responsibilities.

I cried a lot less than I did last year. Saw my counselor regularly. Went on two young adult retreats. Left a small group. Started attending another one. Tried several other small groups. Visited more churches in my ever widening search for a home church. Maybe found one.

Lost a housemate. Gained a new one. Spent evenings and weekends with my housemates and legal assistants, and brought some of of them with me to Wisconsin for Christmas. Starred in the Christmas skit. Went to multiple community theater productions (almost all starring people I work with!)

My word for the year was community, and I think that really did prove accurate. With Taco Tuesdays, Star Trek Mondays, daily walks, birthday brunches, visits with friends far away, Sunday DnD, catch-up lunches, trying to get Joel elected mayor, that one Avengers trivia night where I contributed my knowledge of the Great Lakes Avengers, the new axe throwing bar in town, dinners at my favorite steak place, Thanksgiving with friends, impromptu thrift store adventures, and helping people move…

No wonder I am exhausted.


Et tu, twenty two?

Dad: “I’m going to coin the phrase: ‘Et tu, twenty two?'”

Mom: “Why?”

Dad: “You know, 2020 was horrible. 2021 was bad. 2022…was ugh. It somehow also stabbed us in the back.”

Seems fair. Full review of the year to come tomorrow.


My Least Favorite Reads of 2022

Of the 205 books I read in 2022, these five were the most disappointing.

Well Matched by Jean DeLuca

Well Matched is the third book in the Well Met series. Each story is fairly standalone and involves a different couple finding love at a Renaissance Faire. I’ve been looking forward to this particular story arc since we first met the characters in book 1. (The hero was described as “Captain America meets Gaston” and I just had SO MANY QUESTIONS.) And then it had all the tropes! Fake relationship. Buddies to lovers. Kilts. But somehow it still failed. The couple had negative chemistry. I was actively rooting for them not to get together. Just skip this one. (Actually, maybe skip the whole series?)

The Little Bookshop of Lonely Hearts by Annie Darling

This book kept me glued to the pages: I was too horrified to look away. I couldn’t even skim. It was appalling almost from start to finish. I was willing to overlook a lot considering this story’s obvious love for some of my favorite authors (Georgette Heyer, Helene Hanff, Dorothy L. Sayers.) But when you’ve got a heroine who makes Sophie Kinsella’s characters look pulled together and a hero who is an unredeemable jerk, it is going to take more than a nod to the greats to get me on board. See my full diatribe on Goodreads here.

Who’s Picking Me Up from the Airport?: And Other Questions Single Girls Ask by Cindy Johnson

This book is an early-30-something’s rant about how she thought she’d be married by this point in her life but isn’t. Then she had her early 30-something friends write letters expressing how they thought they’d be married but are not. Perhaps it was a case of me-not-you. I expected something more funny and relatable. Instead I got a lot of cringe.

Me Talk Pretty One Day by David Sedaris

Speaking of not funny…I believe this collection of essays was supposed to be funny. The description says it exposes “not only the absurdities that people overlook in daily life, but also the humor that can be found in even the most mundane situations.” But mostly it was just depressing. I hope the author saw a counselor after writing this book.

The Murder of Mr. Wickham by Claudia Gray

You thought you were getting a brain-bending cozy mystery where Darcy’s son and Tilney’s daughter solve the murder of Mr. Whickham? THINK AGAIN. This is an agonizingly long, boring story of marital unrest that does most of Austen’s characters dirty and then hits you with an anticlimactic conclusion when the story can’t draw out any longer. Then it had the audacity to throw in discussion questions at the end.

Butt-dialing the Billionaire by Annika Martin

Have you ever read a book that just keeps you asking: “But does this company not have an HR department?”


2022 Reading Challenge: My 5 Star Reads

This is normally the part of the show where I come out and tell you that I’ve got multiple posts planned listing all the 5-star books I’ve read over this past year. But not this year. Despite reading 206 books, most of my 5 star reads were re-reads and I don’t count those for this post. On the flip side, I also didn’t have that many 1 star reads either. It was kind of an odd year.

So, without much more ado, the 10 best books I read in 2022.

10. The Sewing Book by Alison Smith

Sewing 101. I don’t sew. I don’t own a sewing machine. I didn’t start sewing after reading this book. But it was still a very helpful overview if looking to learn (or re-learn) the lingo of sewing. It is a how-to for reading a pattern, pros and cons of different fabrics, how to add collars, the different ways to finish seams, etc. I found it highly enjoyable but couldn’t tell ya if it is practically helpful.

9. The Return of the Prodigal Son: A Story of Homecoming by Henri J.M. Nouwen

While very short, this is a richly profound look at the spiritual implications of Rembrandt’s painting Return of the Prodigal Son. It clearly came from years of reflection and gave me much to chew over. I think it is one I will have to come back to again this coming year.

8. A Lady’s Guide to Fortune-Hunting by Sophie Irwin

Want a clean romance that gives you the swoon-worthy drama of the Regency period without making you blush if your Mom picks it up? This is a fun, slow-burn, enemies-to-lovers novel with a heroine who will do anything to marry a fortune and make way for her younger sisters. If I found the main villain a bit cartoonish, and the ending a little convenient, I will say that I rounded up to five stars for exceeded expectations. Just a fun, well-delivered novel.

7. The Fantasy Fiction Formula by Deborah Chester

Writing fantasy novels 101. I don’t currently write fiction and I didn’t start writing fiction after reading this book but I found it fascinating. While specific to the fantasy genre, the writing advice transcends genres. This is a practical handbook and an engaging audiobook. It walks would-be writers through every part of the writing process (specifically focused on the fantasy genre) and provides examples of good and bad writing with practice assignments. I feel like a more informed reader after finishing this one.

6. The Afterlife of Holly Chase by Cynthia Hand

I suppose this is my YA recommendation for the year—a modern day retelling of A Christmas Carol! Holly is a failed Scrooge. She was visited by three ghosts but didn’t change her ways. As a result, she died and now works as the Ghost of Christmas Past. Except this year things are different. The Scrooge is a teenager, much like she was, and he doesn’t seem inclined to change his ways. She’ll have to figure out why she failed if she is going to give him a different ending. This was cute, creative, and I suspect a future Christmas re-read for me.

5. The White Man’s Burden: Why the West’s Efforts to Aid the Rest Have Done So Much Ill and So Little Good by William Easterly

Considering the 2006 publishing date and the controversy this book sparked, I found it surprisingly relevant today. Easterly critiques the West’s application of foreign aid and stresses the need for local control in crisis problem solving. This was a practical, insightful look at the politics at play and the good intentions that frequently lead to more problems. It also really introduces some of the main players in the world of international aid. Definitely one of those books that continues to serve as a lighting rod for further discussion.

4. On Faith: Lessons from an American Believer edited by Christopher Scalia

This collection of writings by Justice Antonin Scalia surpassed my expectations because it includes reflections from those around him who either observed his faith or benefited from it. (Including his legal clerks, his children, and his fellow justices.) The additional reflections provide emotional depth to Scalia’s already witty and readable writing. I found it edifying and inspiring. It both celebrates and mourns Scalia’s passing, and in doing so, provides much needed emotional catharsis.

3. The Tragedy of Liberation: A History of the Chinese Revolution 1945-1957 by Frank Dikötter

This is an engaging but gruesome look at the mass killings, starvation, and torture visited on the Chinese population as the communists took power between 1945-1957. I have heard a lot about Stalin’s genocidal regime but not as much about what happened in China. This book is particularly powerful because it spans both time and geography. While Mao’s growing power certainly changed the experience of Chinese communists over time, it was also a very different experience for those in urban locations versus those in rural areas. I highly recommend this one as an audiobook.

2. Facing Leviathan: Leadership, Influence, and Creating in a Cultural Storm by Mark Sayers

Mark Sayers has a really interesting life story and his experience with leadership and faith reminded me of the debates raging among the students when I went to college. I wish this book existed in 2012; we could have used the insight he offers. This book is part memoir, part leadership handbook, and part historical and philosophical look at the modern church. It took me a while to actually finish despite being relatively short because I kept pausing to highlight and chew on the text. There were a lot of really profound points about leadership, culture, history, literature, and faith.

1. Bread and Wine: Readings for Lent and Easter by J. Heinrich Arnold, C.S. Lewis, G.K. Chesterton, Dorothy L. Sayers, Wendell Berry, Henri J.M. Nouwen, Thomas Merton, N.T. Wright…and like fifty more authors of a similar vein.

This collection of readings for Lent and Easter ranges from the familiar and treasured (writings of Augustine, Chesterton, Lewis, Luther, and Sayers) to the odd (Oscar Wilde?!) to the new-to-me (Dear, Guardini, Howard, and Soelle.) It breaks into six parts: Invitation, Temptation, Passion, Crucifixion, Resurrection, and New Life. Some of the essays truly challenged and strengthened the way I thought about my faith. Others were more….okay or downright meh. But overall I would say this was a great find and I’m looking forward to re-reading it this coming Lenten season.


2022 Reading Stats

With the end of the year right around the corner, it is time for my favorite part of the blogging season: recapping my favorite (and least favorite) reads!

In 2017 I read 119 books.

In 2018 I read 255 books.

In 2019 I read 319 books.

In 2020 I read 400 books.

In 2021 I read 272 books.

In 2022 I read…

205 books totaling 60,611 pages. Of the 205 books, 60 were re-reads. (A new record for me!)

Average rating: 3.4 stars.

Average Book Length: 295 pages.

To Read List: Started the year with 881 on my to-read list. Ending with 913 books.

My Favorite Book This Year: Bread and Wine: Readings for Lent and Easter published by Plough Publishing House

Most Disappointing Book: Well Matched by Jen DeLuca

Best Re-Read: This is always a hard category. For surprised expectations, I’ll give it to The Wolves of Willoughby Chase by Joan Aiken

Most Read Author: Patricia Briggs with 9 books

Best New-To-Me Author: Sarah Caudwell

Best Middle School ReadIf You Find This by Matthew Baker (thank you for the recommendation, Bethany!)

Longest ReadFrederica by Georgette Heyer at 540 pages

Shortest ReadEnola Holmes and the Boy in Buttons by Nancy Springer at 21 pages.

Most Popular Read: The Picture of Dorian Gray by (shelved by 2,685,518 people on Goodreads).

Least Popular Read: The Widowed Miss Mordaunt by Jeanne Savery shelved by 45 people.


Lost Days

Being basically unconscious for 48 hours while sick did a number on my sense of time.

Did we just celebrate JW’s birthday? Oh no, that was Thursday. Christmas Eve services? Friday and Saturday.

My guests from Virginia? Gone. Sadness.

Kris? Here. Hurray!

I apologize to everyone who asked what my plans are for the rest of the week. I have no clue!


Merry Christmas!

I hope you have a wonderful day! ❤️

Grateful to report my fever broke and I got to spend a lovely day with my family and poor, neglected friends.


Merry Christmas Eve!

I’m still stranded in bed all day but (hopefully?) on the mend.

Have a lovely Christmas Eve!

I’m going take another nap.


Christmas (Immune System) Crash

I swear my immune system had a countdown for when it could collapse on me. While I congratulated myself on surviving Ohio (and then the 12 hour drive to Wisconsin) with barely a sniffle, it bided its time. And when I hit “log out” on my work computer at 3:30 pm yesterday, anticipating four lovely days off with friends and family, it finally gave up.

A fever and cough is not the way I like to spend Christmas, but my guests are being incredibly kind about it. Even the birthday girl.

Happy Birthday, JW! And Happy Christmas Eve-Eve to the rest of you!


2022 Reading Update

Well it took till 12.22.2022 but I officially finished my 202 book and hit my reading goal for the year.

My updated reading goal, I should probably confess, because I lowered it once I decided I wasn’t going to make 222.

Full commentary to come with the end of the year. But hurrah! I made it.